queer community – HIV stigmafighter

Black Pride Amsterdam: A journey to liberation

28 August 2026hivstigmafighter

Carrying my message “PrEP saves lives”at WorldPride 2026

My lovely people, how was your summer? Mine was alive with powerful moments that inspired me deeply. One of the highlights took place in Amsterdam, the capital of the country I call home – The Netherlands – during WorldPride 2026. Fresh from AIDS 2026 in Rio, I stepped onto the Pride Boat, representing EATG aboard the EMA (European Medicines Agency) float. With pride and urgency, I carried my message of HIV prevention and stigma reduction, delivered with the fervour our community deserves.

That moment felt like an appetizer for another powerful gathering, the first ever Black Pride Festival in Amsterdam, a parallel event to WorldPride. Black Pride is more than a festival, it is a movement and a platform rooted in the experiences, histories, and futures of Black LGBTQIA+ communities in the Netherlands. We exist because our community has always created spaces of care, resistance, celebration, and imagination, often without the recognition or resources we deserve.

Through culture, conversation, education, art, nightlife, and collective organizing, Black Pride makes space for Black queer lives to be seen fully in our vulnerability, joy, creativity, spirituality, and FREEDOM.

The event, Blueprint for Liberation through Collective Power, brought together so many inspiring voices:

So many inspiring speakers at Black Pride Amsterdam

Lady Phyll, founder and CEO of Black Pride UK, reminded us why Black Pride was born in 2005: “People who were told there was no space for them. Too Black for queer spaces, too queer for Black spaces. We built our own home. Today in Amsterdam we choose joy, chosen family, and we choose to call each other home.”
Tieneke Sumter, cultural worker and queer activist for over 40 years, shared Black queer history, honouring pioneers like Tania Leon and others who fought from the beginning of the resistance movement.
Kenya Hutton, CEO of the Center for Equity in New York, declared: “Black Pride is FREEDOM.” They reminded us that Pride is not just celebration. It is resistance, advocacy, and solidarity, especially when rights are under attack. His program focuses on HIV prevention, education, and awareness.
March Bannor, trans activist and community leader, highlighted the visibility of trans men in the Netherlands. Seeing a trans man present was powerful as representation matters, and it showed that our movement includes everyone in the Black queer community.

During the talks, I raised questions about HIV prevention, awareness, and stigma in our Black and queer communities in the Netherlands. I emphasized that we cannot wait for big organizations, where people of colour are all too often underrepresented, to “save” us. HIV stigma, discrimination, and racism are deeply tied to mental health struggles. There cannot be Black joy when someone is suffering in silence. The speakers thanked me for bringing this crucial issue forward.

The festival was alive with energy: the queer market, ballroom, tarot readings, exhibitions of queer archives and HIV history in the Netherlands, DJs, MCs, and endless dancing and laughter. At the queer market, I connected with people while sharing HIV Stigmafighter pins with fellow community members.

I had a really interesting conversation at the Afrotunda queer market stand where I asked how they felt about Black Pride and I believe their answer sums up the event very well: “Being part of the first Black Pride Festival was so special and empowering. You could really feel the energy vibrating through the community, and the amazing platform given to Black queer creativity. I am super grateful that we got a chance to show up and share our work in a space filled with so much Black joy, representation, and genuine connections.”

I couldn’t agree more. This is just the beginning. One day, perhaps, we will host a World Black Pride in Amsterdam, inviting activists and artists from countries where being queer is still criminalized. That dream belongs on the dreamtree of Black Pride Amsterdam.

To my fellow community members: I am Black, I am queer, and I am living with HIV. All three truths can exist in the same body as joy. To find that joy, you must get tested, get treated, and embrace who you are.

Peace,

Eliane

Rainbow June

26 June 202626 June 2026hivstigmafighter

My lovely people, how many of you see June as the Rainbow month? Every June, no matter where I am, I celebrate Pride Month with the queer community. For many, it’s the one time of year when the sun shines directly on them. It is a moment of visibility, joy, and freedom. In June I also hold in my heart those communities where Pride cannot be celebrated openly, where rainbow flags remain hidden, and where people dream of a day they can dance, speak their truth, and live without fear of persecution.

This June, I am fortunate to be in South Korea. Two years ago, I connected with local communities here, and returning now feels like being welcomed home. The celebrations are known as the “Seoul Queer Culture Festival”, but the spirit is the same: Pride.

For me, Pride month began with a vibrant show led by Korea’s pioneering drag artist, Hurricane Kimchi. Through music and performance, artists reminded us of the importance of being yourself and loving who you are. Though the official name is “Queer Culture Festival,” Kimchi joyfully declared, “Happy Pride!” A reminder that June is our rainbow month everywhere.

On Saturday, June 13, more than 50,000 people attended the Parade through Seoul. Flags waved, smiles shone, and energy filled the streets. I joined the march with my activist spirit alive, wearing a shirt that read “No Stigma” and sharing my messages on “U=U” and “PrEP Protects”. Advocacy for HIV prevention and stigma reduction must always be part of Pride, because knowing these truths means health and dignity.

I visited many festival booths where people could write down wishes to be prayed for or have pictures taken within human-sized photo frames with positive messages. My core message was simple as always: a world free of stigma, where people living with HIV can express themselves without fear. One message I saw read: “HIV+ You don’t need to give up on your dream.” That resonated deeply. Activism is about expressing yourself without fear and building dream trees together.

Not everything was joyful. Along the Pride route there were also religious protesters who held signs saying for example “Homosexuality go to hell” and “Kill all sinners”. As a religious person myself, I reject this distortion of faith. Jesus taught us to love our neighbours, without conditions of gender or race. To use God’s name to harm LGBTQIA+ people is the greatest lie. If God is displeased, let God act. Not humans who twist scripture into weapons.

I believe in God as the father of humanity, and I believe in Ubuntu: “I am because we are.” That’s why I continue to connect with communities needing support. On June 29, Korea marks “Sex Workers Day”, co-organized by groups like Scarlet Chacha and X Youth Sex Labor, and Solidarity Braza. Eric the Dragking is invited to perform, showing how dragtivism amplifies messages about HIV, AIDS, and to remind ourselves that Sex work is work. Let us continue our fight for dignity!

My final days in Korea will be spent with women living with HIV. Many face stigma in prenatal and postnatal care, and isolation prevents peer support. We are exploring ways to help support the building of digital peer networks and eventually peer counseling in hospitals. Strong, empowered women can transform healthcare systems from within.

My Pride message for this month is: To every queer person, when they pray for you, claiming you are “sick” because of who you are, know this – they are wasting their time. The only healing you need is self-love. Accept yourself, embrace yourself, and shine so brightly that your rainbow beauty blinds ignorance.

Happy Pride,

Peace,

Eliane

I am strong!

27 March 2026hivstigmafighter

My lovely people, have you ever witnessed the moment a dreamer finally becomes a doer? That is what my story of today is about.

Since childhood, I expressed myself through every art form I could find. By dancing the traditional Umuyebe (a dance intended for Burundian men), drumming in a boys’ groups, or any other way. People told me I was “crazy”, doing things meant only for boys. But my inner voice told me, “Be happy, Eric”. I just could not see any barrier when it came to art!

Thanks to my parents and my school, I was allowed to be myself. So, every time Eliane performed, Eric felt alive too. Even as a child, I knew one day I would show Eric to the world.

When I attended Lycée Étoiles des Montagnes in Jenda village, I joined theatre and played a male role, a chef cook, and I shined! Later, while working at Musée Vivant in 2000, I met a man selling an Indonongo instrument I asked him to teach me to play it. I asked myself: Why don’t girls play this instrument? I knew many female artists, but they only sang, none of them played a traditional instrument like the drums or Indonongo.

When I started performing my Indonongo, compliments were few and insults were many. But the more people tried to stop me, the more determined I became. Eventually, they stopped talking, and I kept playing. I became the first Burundian woman known for performing the cowhorn instrument.

When I moved to the Netherlands, I became known as an African woman teaching African culture. I played mothers on stage, performed Indonongo, and carried my heritage with pride.

But my dream did not end there. As a dreamer and doer, I wanted to keep my promise to Eric and show him to the world. Not just for fun, but with purpose. I wanted Eric to help me fight HIV stigma, break taboos, and raise awareness.

In the beginning Eric was making a lot of noise, stomping HIV stigma away, and then I realised that he could do so much more. So I asked myself, “What if I played the Indonongo as Eric?”, “What if I sang too?”. And wouldn’t it be nice to be the first Burundian Drag King living openly with HIV and performing a traditional cowhorn instrument? Really, how many artists are out there who combine all these talents and share this with the world? Allow me to brag, I worked hard for it!

And that is who I became. Unique, unstoppable, and proud.

Thanks to Girls Won’t Be Girls / Boys Won’t Be Boys, I now tour theatres in the Netherlands, sharing my story and my culture.

Performing as Eric feels like bringing my entire life on stage. My childhood memories, my parents’ encouragement, the journey of Eliane and Eric growing together. I share the hardship, my HIV diagnosis, the moments of darkness, the joy of sharing my status, and the victory of choosing life.

When I ask the audience at my show to repeat…

I am strong like Eric!

I am lovely like Eric!

I embrace who I am!

I never give up!

…it is because someone in that room is fighting their own battle, just like Eric did. Those words are for them.

Allow me, with all my heart, to offer my deepest thanks to Rikkert van Huisstede, Artistic Director of Boys Won’t Be Boys, for believing in my story and recognising its impact. And to the entire BWBB and GWBG community, thank you for your support. Together, we break stereotypes and taboos.

And to all these girls with beautiful dreams in my home village of Murira, Burundi, and beyond I want to tell you that the world is changing. You no longer have to wait for men to decide what you can or cannot do. Look around, find your role model, your inspiration. They will show you what is possible. They make your dreams feel real. And if you can dream it, you can do it.

My lovely community, our work is not done.

We are strong, smart, and resilient.

We will keep showing the world our worth.

Peace,

Eliane (Eric)