Last night, the Amsterdam Dinner Event once again proved its power as the Netherlands’ largest annual fundraiser for innovative, life-saving HIV initiatives. This year’s focus, PrEP access, could not have been more urgent. The commitment to funding PrEP for young women and girls in Kenya and strengthening prevention here in the Netherlands is a step in the right direction.
But let’s talk about reality.
For years, grassroots activists and local HIV communities have fought tirelessly for equitable PrEP access. Yet, as Eric the Dragking pointed out yesterday, we still remain largely UNSEEN. The HIV community is not just about legacy organizations, it’s about real people in the community who bring passion, commitment, and groundbreaking innovation. And yet, when funds are raised, they overwhelmingly flow to the same few dominant players. This is a missed opportunity that keeps the status quo intact rather than fostering real change.
Our fight through PrEP Diversity has long challenged this dynamic, advocating for inclusive access and making sure the community – those most affected -have a seat at the table. Last night’s conversation with Princess Mabel affirmed something powerful: when women know about PrEP, they demand it. Visibility matters. Representation matters. Knowledge matters.
And now, €1.2 million has been raised. The question is: how will it be spent? Will it truly reach the women who need it most, or will it largely remain within the conventional circles of power? Will grassroots efforts of those closest to the communities be invited to collaborate, or will they be sidelined once again?
This is the moment to break the cycle. We are ready to work together. We already do; reaching sex workers in Burundi, supporting people living with HIV with a migrant background in the Netherlands, using talent and activism to push PrEP awareness beyond its current limitations. These are the voices that must be uplifted, because this is how we dismantle stigma and drive meaningful prevention.
So yes, thank you, Amsterdam Dinner Foundation. But let’s ensure this money creates real impact, not just reinforces old systems.
I was honoured to speak at the second European LGBTQI+ Health Conference in Brussels—a vibrant gathering of activists, healthcare professionals, researchers, community organizations, and affected individuals from across Europe. The event was filled with incredible discussions, inspiring stories, and groundbreaking initiatives. Here are some impressions, hope you like them!
Addressing stigma through community-led harm reduction initiatives
During this session, my contribution focused on broad spectrum harm reduction Initiatives in the LGBTQI+ context. I shared my personal journey overcoming HIV stigma, highlighting how our talents may transform us into community icons. As one of the initiators of local grassroots initiatives driven by migrants living with HIV, I spoke about the impact of sharing lived experiences and empowering local HIV communities. I also shared my experience as a PrEP advocate and volunteer, working with local organizations such as PrEPNu to ensure access to PrEP as an essential preventive tool.
We also heard from Ismal from AIDS Action Europe, who discussed harm reduction in the chemsex context. Their organization provides training manuals and best practice guidelines for delivering health services tailored to chemsex users. They conduct trainer workshops, facilitate knowledge exchanges, and offer grants for translations and webinars, ensuring widespread accessibility of resources.
Another inspiring initiative came from Osmely José of Accion Triangulo, who uses art and cinema as educational tools through Pride Positivo. Their film screenings actively combat stigma, and they’ve developed an innovative concept—the PAE pill—as a symbol of HIV destigmatization, based on real-life experiences of stigma in healthcare and community settings.
PrEP access & prevention strategies
One of the most crucial discussions revolved around PrEP accessibility. As a volunteer at PrEPnu, I shared our digital outreach strategies, which allow people to access services through PrEPNu’s online platform. Additionally, our outreach teams engage with the LGBTQI+ community at festivals, pride walks, workshops, parties, saunas, and health clinics, ensuring widespread awareness. Unfortunately, PrEP is currently only available at a cost (+/- 30 euros per month) in the Netherlands, which remains a significant barrier.
Other European organizations shared their approaches:
Romania: Mihai from Checkpoint ARAS who opened six PrEP checkpoints under the Checkpoint ARAS Network. These community clinics, situated within hospitals, create safe, non-intimidating environments for key populations. PrEP is also not free in Romania.
Serbia: Duga Association, an LGBTQI+ community-led organization, launched the First Checkpoint offering free HIV testing, doctor consultations, and psychological support. This effort counteracts stigma, geographic barriers, and fragmented services that often discourage people—especially those outside big cities—from seeking care. While PrEP is available in Belgrade pharmacies, it costs €43 per month, making accessibility difficult.
Do you remember the Barcelona checkpoints I visited last year? All these initiatives really create a momentum around PrEP in Europe. I sincerely hope that one day we will see these community-led checkpoints in the Netherlands as well, they are really complementary to the great work already done by PrEPNu! So let us keep fighting for PrEP diversity!
HIV dragtivism
Throughout the conference I had already been highlighting how through creative activism, including HIV dragtivism, we are able to challenge political and healthcare perceptions, pushing for inclusive policies.
Somewhat unplanned, but always ready, I was asked to perform as Eric the Dragking. So on the closing night, participants were able to experience Eric the Dragking stomping HIV stigma alongside them—a symbolic and empowering moment that energized many attendees. In fact, numerous organizations expressed enthusiasm about inviting Eric to their countries to further break HIV stigma and raise PrEP awareness!
The urgent need for global action
While UNAIDS and numerous organizations continue advocating to end HIV and AIDS by 2030, the reality remains troubling: prevention tools exist, yet communities still struggle for access due to political hurdles and greedy pharmaceutical interests. Health is a human right, yet so many LGBTQI+ individuals lack the protections they deserve. So is this target still realistic and how will we reach it? I am convinced that conferences such as these contribute by creating the much-needed space for collaboration, knowledge-sharing, and empowerment. Let’s hope the Netherlands HIV community is listening to their European neighbours!
Let’s hear a few powerful reflections I collected from fellow participants:
> “In times of increasing polarization and prejudice against LGBTQI+ people, institutions, healthcare providers, advocates, and scholars must unite to promote health for all. This conference catalyzed new efforts, bringing together passionate individuals from across Europe and beyond. Let’s work together to foster well-being for everyone!” > — Tabea Hassler, Researcher at the University of Zurich
> “It was incredible to network with so many changemakers improving LGBTQI+ health across Europe. The passion, enthusiasm, and energy of attendees were truly inspiring, and I have no doubt that real action and collaborations will emerge from this event.” > — John Gilmore, University College Dublin
> “The 2nd European Conference on LGBTIQ+ Community Health definitely brought together the best LGBTIQ+ thinkers and practitioners from across Europe at such a crucial time as this, to form new alliances, strengthen our vision, and refine our collective focus.”> —Dr Harvey Kennedy-Pitt
United, we will win this fight
The fight for health equity and LGBTQI+ rights is ongoing—but together, we are strong. Through collaboration, activism, and unwavering determination, we will dismantle barriers and demand accessible, stigma-free healthcare for all.
I urge you to have a look at the manifesto we drafted together during the conference: The manisfesto recognises that LGBTQI+ communities continue to face systemic inequalities, institutional violence, and barriers to essential healthcare. In the manifesto we state that we refuse to accept a system that neglects lived experience, silences community-based knowledge, and denies universal access to care. We demand the recognition of peer support as legitimate healthcare, PrEP access for all, the integration of LGBTQI+ realities in medical training, structural support for community health centers, and our rightful place in public health decision-making. Justice in healthcare is not optional – it’s a necessity. Stand with us. Sign the manifesto. Be part of the change!
Thanks Stephen Barris from Ex Aequo for organising this wonderful conference and looking forward to the next edition!
Let’s keep pushing forward. We are the working force, and our voices matter.
As many of you know, I always like to show my passion of fighting HIV stigma through many different talents. On the 13th of september it was time for me to express myself as a HIV artivist as I was invited to join a very special celebration of ‘Projekt Afrikaherz’ based in Berlin, Germany.
Already for 25 (!) years Afrikaherz (‘African Heart’) is fighting to improve access to health services for African migrants, with a focus on HIV/AIDS as overall there is limited access to health care, especially for migrants without formal residence status.
I was excited to meet other people from the African community living in vibrant Berlin and to share my passion for African music making, playing my indonongo instrument, singing and dancing with them. Helping to make sure they have an unforgettable experience so they can recharge in their fight against HIV stigma in their local HIV communities.
There were so many HIV-related issues to cover during this marvelous event. History has shown that when we are fighting for our right, we should not give up so easily, no matter how hard things are. I learned that especially in the beginning Afrikaherz went through a hard time with a lot of rejections and disinterest by the health system in Berlin. However, they persevered and through their hard work and insistence, gradually they were able to create a solid name in health & HIV response, also making sure to address the stigma surrounding those living with or affected by HIV and AIDS.
Listening to testimonies of fellow members of the African community in Europe, I realised that eventually they managed to navigate their journey through the German HIV and healthcare system, even if it took them 25 years to make that journey easier for people with an African background in Berlin. They did not give up! This is a truly great achievement worthy of celebration.
After these speeches I was invited to share my personal experience of living 21 years with HIV. I call this urugendo which means life journey. Those of you that know me longer may have already seen me perform urugendo, it is a fun way for me to share my ups and downs and highlight the work I am doing to improve access to health & HIV care and fighting HIV stigma. By the way, if you don’t know urugendo, contact me, I am happy to perform it for you one day 🙂
Immediately after my performance I joined the stage for a panel discussion with fellow HIV activist from Germany Lilian Petry from Deutsche Aidshilfe, Elizabeth Beloe from Federal Association of Migrant Organizations and Susanna Kahlefeld from the Green Party. For me a question that intrigued me was the one about the future of Afrikaherz in 10 years from now. My wish for them is to be able to connect even more with other local HIV organisations and health services in other states in Germany, and even reaching out to organisations in surrounding countries such as those in the Netherlands. Because we all know that the African migrant community is very well connected throughout the whole of Europe and the rest of the World. Organisations such as Afrikaherz are essential to bring positive messages to the African community about access to health & HIV care and fighting HIV stigma. And their message will be so much more powerful if it is amplified to people with a migrant background in the other 15 states of Germany, the Netherlands and other countries. Connected we are stronger!
During the course of the event I realised that there is something we still lack a lot both in Germany and the Netherlands and we must address urgently; When we talk about HIV prevention, PrEP awareness and access must also be actively promoted in migrant communities! While here in the Netherlands great work is done by organisations such as PrEPnu, with a particular focus on Men who have Sex with Men (MSM), and while Afrikaherz does promote the use of condoms, African migrant communities are still left behind when it comes to PrEP. The harsh reality is that there are way too few organisations in our HIV community that are actively promoting PrEP access. So, how can African migrant communities know about PrEP? I cannot repeat often enough how important it is that we take more co-ordinated action to ensure PrEP access for key and high-priority populations.
Rosaline M’Bayo
We will not end HIV and AIDS when we continue ignoring African migrant populations in countries such as the Netherlands and Germany. They have equal rights to good healthcare and HIV prevention services while tailored to their specific needs. Please learn from the example that Rosaline M’Bayo and Stephen Amoa from Afrikaherz are setting and make sure they receive the support needed to do their health & HIV outreach for the African migrant community in Germany!
Back to sharing urugendo and some tunes on my indonongo, I got a lot of positive compliments. People told me that my HIV journey and music inspired them, and that I am a powerwoman. Who doesn’t like receiving such beautiful compliments at times? For me the biggest reward was to connect with people from the migrant community and their HIV allies. I am so proud to listen to their inspiring stories to fight HIV stigma.
Through every connection we realise and cherish, we will make our HIV community stronger. Together we will win our fight against HIV and AIDS!
I have been visiting Japan and Korea over the past 5 weeks. That is why you haven’t heard from me. I would like to share my learning from those two countries. Whether I go on holidays or to conferences in other countries, I am always interested to learn the culture, the history and curious about how the local HIV community is doing and connect with them.
My curiosity is mostly on what or how they are doing to fight HIV stigma. Is there any prevention in places, are migrants being helped or do they seek any help, is there PrEP awareness and is it available to anyone, is ‘Undetectable is untransmittable’ (U=U) known to the HIV community and public and are healthcare professionals empowering patients with knowledge of U=U? All these questions always come to my mind, and I make sure I search for answers by connecting with locals’ organizations and HIV activists.
Please bear with me, this is probably the longest post ever, but it is going to be interesting, I promise!
OSAKA
My first stop was Osaka in Japan. Before my travel I connected with Daisuke Fukusho, the only Japanese person open about living with HIV so far. He connected me to an organisation based in Osaka called Dista, a community center to learn and exchange about health, HIV and other sexually transmittable conditions. It was very inspiring to see what the community does for Queer people in and around Osaka. Dista is a very safe places where volunteers and the Queer community, including people Living with HIV, come and meet up for chats, movies or drinks. You cannot know who is living with HIV, people are not open.
With Chef Niji at Dista
I really enjoyed my encouter with Niji Sabou, a Chef cook from neighbouring Kobe. He organizes the social event I visited to help people living with HIV to meet and have social contacts. As an excellent host, he prepared a Sake collection and some good food and served this to the people to generate talks in a very informal way. Niji is organising these kind of events at Dista with a little support from the Kobe Municipality. This is already such a big help to fight loneliness and create a culture of understanding. I found this such a beauiful way of how allies of the local HIV community provide help to us, thank you Niji for a memorable experience!
I noticed that at Dista, none of those we met is open about their HIV status. To me this signals that HIV stigma still has a huge impact in Japan. Even for leaflets on U=U they would still use a modeling agency to find beautiful models to help them in the campaign. And while inform on PrEP is available through a beautiful leaflet, it still focuses on Men having Sex with Men (MSM), women are not yet mentioned. PrEP as an effective prevention approach has not yet been brought to scale; There is only one specific doctor who deals with the PrEP users, the Japanese government is still in the approval stage on PrEp. So in reality PrEP is still only used by people who can afford it and dare to approach the doctor for an appointment.
When I asked about how migrants are part of HIV prevention and how they reach organisations such as Dista, I was actually told that there are still a lot of issues to connect to them such as language barriers, affordability of PrEP and HIV care, etc. Still a lot of fights to win! The good thing is that by only talking to my new friends at Dista, where they confirmed they have never really considered engaging with the migrant community and that they found this a good idea, I do believe I have planted that first seed of the importance of reaching out the migrants as well as increasing PrEP awareness. Thanks you for your hospitality Dista!
TOKYO
The week after I was in Tokyo where I finally meet my comrade in fighting HIV stigma in Japan. Daisuke invited me to Akta, another community center. From here Daisuke does most of his HIV activism. I guess there is an advantage in being open about his status as he can then connect with the local and global HIV community.
My curiosity of how things are organised at Akta was the same as in Osaka. Here also, overcoming HIV Stigma is a major obstacle as there are virtually no people that want to open up about their HIV status. When I asked Daisuke what his drive is, he responded “To keep on fighting HIV stigma, I was encouraged by you”. I felt very honoured and proud to see how what I stand for, fighting HIV stigma, got me to connect with such a strong and motivated activist on the other side of the world!
At Akta, Tokyo, with Daisuke
I had so many questions when we started our discussion on how the Akta community centers work. They agreed that HIV stigma is there and they still do not yet have a proper way to fight it since everyone is still in the closet. Also, a lot of the materials I got in Osaka is there and more, like folders with beautiful anime which they use for their campaigns. When it comes to U=U, the materials mostly target MSM. And again on none of the materials people Living with HIV are featured. This is a real set-back as I believe a message on HIV stigma and prevention becomes so much more powerful if PLHIV such as Daisuke could feature in it instead of hired models. As in Osaka, women are not yet in the picture when it comes to HIV stigma and prevention, despite the great will of organisations such as Akta.
Daisuke confirmed that the government is not yet ready to scale through more open campaigns on important prevention programmes around U=U and PrEP. I mentioned to Akta that without this mix of stigma reduction, U=U and PrEP, we can forget about ending HIV and AIDS in 2030. I also shared with them some initiatives on tackling HIV stigma, for example Stories of hope, and how Eric the Dragking raises awareness on PrEP diversity. We conclude that it’s up to us to bring the change in our HIV community, and that without ending HIV stigma there is no ending HIV and AIDS. They are going to work hard to bring these changes. I am proud to be their inspiration and enjoyed Akta’s wonderful reception a lot!
Korea is a vibrant country! Staying in Busan and magical Jeju island before heading to Seoul, gave me an opportunity to switch from my beautiful Japan experience to soaking in Korean culture, food, nature, and social events. And it also helped me to practice to learn a little more Korean before meeting the Seoul HIV community. And just like in Japan, being able to speak a few words, make a little joke in the local language, really helped me to break the ice and light up the room.
My first day in Seoul was already very special as I arrived on the 1st of june which was the day the Gay Pride was organised. Despite some resistance from Seoul authorities, the queer community did manage to organise a beautiful parade and invite a lot of organisation to show what they are doing within the Queer community. While there were some organisations focusing on HIV, mainly around testing and condom use, none of the 60+ booths had information on PrEP available. That was quite an eye opener to me.
Before even traveling to Korea, I already connected with the amazing Jay who is a HIV activist and also an artist and singer. For him it was very important that once in Seoul for me to try and meet many HIV activists and Korean HIV organizations. So through him I got to know Tari. My first encounter in Seoul with Tari was at a Queer community party which was part of Seoul’s Pride celebrations. And this was a very unique party organised by ChinguSai (Korean Gay Men’s Human Rights Group) who really made a legendary effort to organise a queer party open to all genders. I decided to introduce Eric the Dragking here and we had a truly amazing evening.
Proudly posing with the SHARE team
A few days later I met Tari again, together with her colleague Na Young, at SHARE “Center for Sexual right And Reproductive JusticE” where I was invited to share work experiences between our organisations. I noticed that we had so many priorities in common; Fighting HIV stigma, discrimination and criminalization, education on HIV and Prevention and fighting HIV injustice. SHARE is very committed to sexual reproductive health, health-related reseach, training and education on sexual right, and supporting women and girls on abortion.
In the end we had a lot of fruitful discussions on how the local HIV community can be empowered to lead. They stressed the need for the Korean government to change their strategies and discuss with grassroots organisations working on health and HIV about what they need and help them to break the inequality that exist between women and men. SHARE also particularly supports sex workers to seeking their right to do their work. Especially this part of the key population are being criminalized and put in harm because of their work. I agreed that this is similar to what I have seen in Burundi where sexworkers are often underprivileged. In solidarity I shared a supportive video message of courage and to cheer up the Sexworkers who are being forced to be removed by local government.
A highlight of my time in Seoul was a joint meeting with five organisations, including SHARE, Chingusai, Haengseongin which is a Solidarity group for LGBT Human Rights of Korea, Action-al which is a HIV /AIDS Human Rights organisation, and KNP+ Korean Network of People Living with HIV and AIDS.
Sharing my HIV life joruney with the Korean HIV community
First of all, I was able to share my HIV journey with those organisations and some keys messages on how we fight HIV stigma, work on HIV and ageing and contribute to PrEP awareness . I am very grateful that I was allowed to share my experiences! To the different organisations I had the same question related to PrEP and, similar to Japan, since the government is still in the approval process for PrEP to be known as a public health tool to prevent HIV, right now PrEP is only given to partners of people living with HIV. I shared with them that this breaks my heart as PrEP is not needed if a partner living with HIV is undetectable. To me this shows so much how U=U and PrEP access as important tools and stigma destroyers are still not being used effectively.
I wonder, how long are U=U and PrEP access going to be unused? Why governments and healthcare providers cannot make progress on this and start sharing this important message? There will not be zero new HIV cases by 2030 without U=U and PrEP!
At end of our meeting, I was excited to learn who I could meet again in Munich at AIDS2024. I was shocked to learn that none of these 5 organisations, like the 2 I visited in Japan, will be present there! I know from my experiences that going to these type of events as an activist and member of the HIV community is a great opportunity to meet others activists, share experiences, inspire eachother, and advocate for our priorities. It is such a pity that these type of organisations will not be there, they are the real community voices! What does ‘let communities lead’ really mean if they are not invited to the global stage, if they don’t even know about AIDS2024?
Well, let me tell you, it means we are not doing enough! Do big organisations like IAS really not have the capacity to make sure grasroots organisations from Korea and Japan are also connected to the global stage? Is there really no way in this highly connected world to at least inform them and organisations such as BAWA in Burundi about AIDS2024 so they also have an opportunity to share the tremendous (mostly voluntary) work they do? That is really shameful. For me it means that ‘let communities lead’ is just a hollow phrase if these organisations are excluded. How can we shamelessly think that we are going to end HIV and AIDS in 2030 while there are so many of us in the HIV community that cannot access the latest trends or share their experiences, and worse, don’t even know global patforms such as AIDS2024 exist? Support them now in their journey to end HIV and AIDS!
The talk of ending HIV and AIDS has been going for ages, are we really going to end HIV and AIDS by 2030? To answer this question, we must ask ourselves what actions do we take in our HIV community to put people first? And more importantly, are we making sure to put women in charge?
There is always this inequality. We point it out, we are all aware of it, but concrete actions are hardly noticed. It seems that women are always the last to be thought about while their vulnerability around HIV is so visible. Yet, often we remain silent, indifferent. When will women be saved from this suffering of inequality? When will they not only be spoken about but also put in charge of addressing their challenges related to HIV and AIDS?
This January I am in my home country, Burundi, and my heart is broken when I talk to women in the communities. For example when I talk to a mother with child abandoned by the father, homeless women with children, or young girls begging on the street. Many of these women have no means or support network to take care of themselves and their children.
Put women in charge of HIV response!
Some women resort to becoming a sex worker. This is not without danger, many of them are still sleeping on the streets and through their profession or whilst living on the streets there is a high chance of them being raped. Some told me that happens at least 3 times per week!
The rights of these women are being violated and need to be supported. No wonder it makes me angry when we shamelessly announce we want to end HIV and AIDS in 2030 while basic rights and needs of these women are not even met yet, or when there is no plan of making PrEP available as a preventive strategy to help these women to protect themselves from HIV. Where are our HIV allies when we need them most?
This month my focus is to initiate the strengthening of community-based groups working with vulnerable women to increase their awareness about health & HIV services and PrEP as a life-saving measure for HIV prevention and stigma reduction.
To make a lasting impact we must work directly with local actors, so I have teamed up with a local organisation called BAWA (Burundian Association for Women in Action). The first thing we did was to make sure we listen. We must understand the societal challenges the women face on a daily basis. And my goodness, they are many!
Many women reported they face domestic violence, some sex workers end up with pregnancy during their work and experience problems to register their children as sometimes they are arrested and have their IDs taken, women sleep on the streets without mosquito nets and suffer from malaria and since they are not registered they cannot get mosquito nets, some are being detained by police and taken to the countryside where they live in places without services, etc. It is very shocking. All of them came to the same conclusion, we need safety and protection!
Distributing condoms
Having talked about these challenges and how they affect their lives, we moved to listening to their ideas about how to improve their situation. And it became so apparent to me that they have really great ideas about how they can create a better future for themselves. For example, many women would wish to have access to PrEP or be able to protect themselves for example through condoms.
As BAWA works together with others to address the needs of these vulnerable women, we also organised a session together with them to interact with the women of BAWA. We discussed their strategies on how women can stay healthy & safe, and how to seek help when needed. This was also a great opportunity for me to share the latest on HIV prevention and treatment. So, I shared with them a whole range of preventive measures such as the dapivirine vaginal ring , PrEP pill or injectable PrEP. This is a part of the world where I clearly see the need for injectable PrEP as this will positively impact upon the health of vulnerable women. We were also able to make female and male condoms available, and most strongly preferred female condoms because they are a better means for them to protect themselves.
As is customary in our society, to end these fruitful sessions and collaborations in the Burundian grassroots (HIV) community we shared a great lunch together!
If we do not work with organisations such as BAWA and the vulnerable women they represent directly, ending HIV and AIDS by 2030 is an illusion! So, HIV allies pay attention, let’s make 2024 the year to get the balance right and make sure we address the challenges of women in the global South in our fight against HIV and AIDS.
My lovely people, in many cities all over the world we celebrate Pride in August. Pride is an important moment for the LGBTQIA+ Community to express themselves.
Thanks to an invitation from Sensoa Belgium, I was happily part of Antwerp Pride and contribute to their campaign Is PrEP iets voor jou? (is PrEP something for you?). A key moment was the parade on the 12th of August. I found it very inspirational to join the parade and I also learned that still so many people are not aware or don’t even know about PrEP as a way to prevent someone HIV negative from getting HIV.
During Pride, Antwerp transforms into a brave space where everyone can be who they are within a respectful society. This also means having the courage to stand up and act against stigma and discrimination. Therefore, I was very proud to promote PrEP Diversity. As I pointed out, many people, especially women, with a migrant background are still overseen in stigma reduction and prevention efforts and still do not have equal access to PrEP. I am proud that I contributed to making Antwerp an even braver space by demanding PrEp diversity!
During Antwerp Pride I also celebrated many performances of local artists with so many people who truly felt safe to express themselves in this brave space. It fills me with joy to see them join Pride and be themselves because we manage to create this brave space.
Yet, let’s not forget that many cannot be who they are in their homelands. I wish a brave space would exist anywhere in the world, and not only during one week of Pride each year. A brave space should really not be an event like Christmas, where we wait the whole year to celebrate for a few days and then move on again. We should be able to express ourselves every day!
Frederick Douglass once said “If there is no struggle, there is no progress”, and we should work hard with communities, organisations and governments to promote and protect the human rights of all persons, including the LGBTQIA+ community, without stigma and discrimination.
So let us normalise brave spaces, and the easiest way is to start with yourself by creating a space in your heart to accept and respect each and everyone’s choice to be themselves every day of the year!
My lovely people, today I want to share my opinion on PrEP( Pre Exposure Prophylaxis). I know that PrEP is a pill that prevents a person from getting HIV infection. PrEP is scientificaly proven to be effective for women.
How are we doing in the Netherlands when it comes to PrEP? Are we being inclusive? Recently I wrote something on instagram about PrEP for women, and after that a woman with a migrant background appoached me and said ”I am not a sexworker, but I like to enjoy having sex with men but I am afraid of getting HIV because we don’t always use condoms. I was denied PrEP and the medical person told me that I don’t fit the criteria of the risk group“.
Since when the HIV virus has criteria? It seems to me that the HIV virus wins all the trophies when it comes to diversity! HIV does not care about gender, sexual orientation or ethnic background. So if PrEP is designed to prevent against HIV, then women should have equitable access to PrEP. Women have a right to protect themselves against HIV just like others that are now able to access PrEP right now!
How can we dream of ending HIV and AIDS with proven solutions by 2030 when women, especially those with a migrant background, are still ignored in Prevention programs? Should we not focus on making good our promises to end HIV/ AIDS by 2030 and urgently include women in PrEP programmes right now?!
Migrants, thanks to Aidsmap I recently read an insightful article on why migrant women of African origin are not being targeted by health professionals in PreP programmes whilst they represent over a third of new HIV diagnoses in Belgium in 2020. Cultural differences? Lack of knowledge? Not being ready?
How can health professionals use such discriminatory language? If you generalize a problem and consider cultural diversity an obstacle instead of embracing it, then there is no way we will get rid of HIV and AIDS by 2030!
We must acknowledge that PrEP for all is a powerful pathway towards an HIV and AIDS free World. Instead of sticking our heads in the sand pretending that getting to zero new HIV infections is possible whilst still excluding people with a migrant background, let us bring proven solutions such as PreP to the people that need it most!
Celebrating diversity and ensuring access to PrEP for migrant communities belong together. In a world where our migrant community is growing, with every day new arrivals from many parts of Africa and Asia and places such as Ukraine, we must make a priority to include them in HIV prevention.
Please listen to the needs of migrant women and make sure to prioritize them, so they will be part of the winning team in our fight to end HIV and AIDS.
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